We TEACH others HOW to treat us…
*Saying No when that is how you genuinely feel
*Politely and Self-Confidently Enforcing No when others try to Still Get Us To Say Yes, even though we have politely and self-confidently said No
*TRUSTING our No… AND our Yes
*Judiciously sharing information with new acquaintances, trusting more and more as we experience HEALTHINESS in the other
*Knowing the difference between being PRIVATE and being Secretive…we have a RIGHT to Privacy–it doesn’t hurt others/self, Secrets hurt others
*Stepping Back when it is undeniably apparent we are being taken advantage of/undervalued/unfairly judged…Reciprocity should be an expectation in all relationships
*NOTHING goes withOUT being said: Mindreading is No One’s special talent. It’s an Unfair, Unrealistic Expectation
*Rage, Mistreatment, Judgment, Controlling Behaviors will continue if tolerated
Healthy, take-care-of-self boundaries… Allows us to GENUINELY be in Real Relationship with others…